GRIEF

Collectively many of us have just finished or are still moving through the deepest layers of our grief blueprints and shifting to a lighter place of acceptance and surrender right now. Most of it is deeply subconscious, the grief patterns in our DNA and in our genes passed down generation to generation. Grief frequently lives in our hearts and lungs and so you may experience heart and chest tightness or pain, asthma or difficulty breathing etc. Some of us are experiencing loss of pets or loved ones or noticing the loss of others and trying to stay positive and worry free. Suicide is everywhere it feels like and we feel pulled into the despair of others and the pain and suffering that loss is known to bring to the surviving loved ones. This is usually stemming from a collective and individual fear of death. We must remember that death is just a transition and we are even more fully ourselves outside of these human space suits. Spirit here on earth wearing billions of human meat suits and playing the roles of ALL things seen and unseen. Many of us are experiencing very real feeling deaths of our former selves and birthing into deeper and deeper levels of who we really are. Connecting to what’s truly in alignment and integrity individually. We’re using our discernment and caring for ourselves first so that we can be in true and healthy relationship with others, independently strong and connected, and learning to give from overflow as we receive simultaneously in healthy balance. Leaning back and allowing space for change to happen. Birthing our authentic sovereign selves. When grieving or birthing, we need support. We need community. People who can hold the space of knowing that it is all going to be ok and that we will love and laugh again. People who can see us in our wholeness and our truth and remind us of that. People who can soothe and comfort us while we’re in the thick of it. Feeling ALL of the feelings and releasing the contractions until we’re so exhausted we have no choice but to relax. Death and loss are a part of life. We cannot skip it. We cannot outrun it. We cannot control it. We must learn to accept it. The story we tell about it can ease our suffering tremendously. Remember that death is just a transition to an energetic realm that we as humans are not able to sense easily. We can learn to sense that realm and find the energetic connection to the people we love there. Our meat suits will die and that can’t be helped, but our souls will live on for eternity. Remember that in eternity - this entire human life, even at 100 years, is but a blink of an eye. Your loved ones on the other side are barely blinking and you’re already there with them. So grieve. For it is a loss. But do not lose yourself in the grief. The souls in the unseen are cheering for us to live life to the fullest and to take full advantage of every last breath we have to do the things we’re here to do. To experience time and space on this earth in the highest frequencies available to us. As we reach out to our communities for support, and as we take the role of the supporter’s to our grieving loved ones, let’s remember that it is bittersweet. That death and loss, opens up new paths and new experiences. That it is divinely pre-ordained and there was nothing you could’ve done differently to change the outcome, nor should you have. When one door closes, another opens. Life can improve after loss but you must choose to focus on that improvement. Be with the loss, the grief, the despair, (it may feel like a lot if it is clearing from your DNA and cellular structure), but then transmute that into renewed passion for life. Take all the time you need. We’re here for you. I love you all so much. xoxo