GIVE UP YOUR LABELS

I always see these funny memes about introverts and I always love them and resonate because I was an introvert too. For a long time. I was outgoing with those who knew me best, with my closest friends and family I was the most extroverted because I felt safe there, but put me in a new social situation or larger group and I was awkward as fuck. I would usually just get drunk really fast so I could just be myself and not care if I looked stupid. And I had some funnnn times don’t get me wrong! But let’s just say I give thanks daily that camera phones and social media didn’t exist back then. Can you imagine?! I WAS AN INTROVERT, UNTIL I DECIDED NOT TO BE.

Until overtime and through healing my self concept, I decided I was actually worthy of other people wanting to know me and spend time with me. Once I truly felt that way inside, that I deserved soul family and close like minded friends, I attracted life long beautiful friendships and trustworthy people everywhere I went and reconnected with old friends again in a new way! But not until I believed inside of myself that I deserved it. And as I became the person who made friends easily and attracted loving and supportive relationships effortlessly, I began to naturally be more extroverted. I REALIZED THAT MY LABEL OF INTROVERT WAS JUST A WAY TO JUSTIFY MY OWN LIMITATIONS.

An excuse to not expand and grow and lean into discomfort so that I might discover balance. Safer to just stay with what I already knew. My introvert identity felt familiar and like a much smarter choice than risking rejection, humiliation or abandonment. Staying an introvert felt like a choice until I realized it was sometimes interfering with things I wanted to experience in my life, but felt too constricted and unworthy to participate in. I didn’t set out to become more extroverted, but as I followed my path of conscious growth and personal lessons, and as I released my clenching death grip on old identities that I was choosing powerfully not to choose anymore, it just happened. Naturally. Now that I have that pretty well balanced within my personality, I do still need my alone time. I need time to decompress. But rather than limit myself through labels, I choose to experience each energy or mood as it comes naturally into my life. I move through it and surrender to what feels most fulfilling and satisfying to me in each moment. I learn to trust myself more and more, support and love myself more and more and in better and better ways, and as I go along, sometimes I’m an introvert and sometimes I’m an extrovert and both feel really good, really natural and really free. I give in to me and just move through an introverted mood instead of becoming it. Or I am naturally and spontaneously inspired to an extroverted interaction when it’s aligned because my limitations aren’t in the way of my desires anymore. CONSIDER GIVING UP YOUR LABELS AND MAKING A CONSCIOUS CHOICE TO CHANGE THE NARRATIVE IN FAVOR OF YOURSELF.

I love you all! xoxo

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